Your Happiness Is Your North Star!
"Forget all the reasons why it won't work and believe the one reason why it will."
— Unknown
Do not let the excuse of not having clarity or direction stop you from taking action. If you are not happy where you are right now, then it's a clear go signal for you to pick yourself up & start moving!
As long as you are moving in a forward direction and are determined to not stop, you are doing fine! Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise, your vision is only yours to see! When you are on a journey, remember how it’s okay to travel non-stop sometimes and then you take those quick breaks in-between, sometimes you get so tired you just stop and don’t feel like moving only. But you know a beautiful destination is waiting for you and you get back up and keep moving! Such is the case when you want to achieve something in life!
Sometimes we change the route, sometimes we find roadblocks and are forced to change the route! But as long as we are not stopping, we are bound to reach our destination sooner or later! Nothing in this world can stop you if you are determined to walk and not stop until you get what you want. Embody that ferocious warrior energy, rest when you are tired, cry when the bearing gets tough, yell in pain or ask for help when you need to, but don't you stop for nothing. Keep walking, keep fighting for what you believe in even when nobody else believes in you! Some people may argue that they are not sure what lies ahead and that makes sense too but I beg to differ here. Let's say you don't know what your goals are or you don't know what your destination looks like, the question to ask yourself is that why people will want to achieve their goals and stuff in the first place. I believe it's a no-brainer that everyone wants to feel happy and content! So, even if you don't know what exactly you want for your life you still know that all you want is to feel happy and fulfilled, however it manifests for you. If you are not happy for any damn reason where you are at right now in your career, relationships or life in general then you have to pick yourself up and start moving! Do you hear me ?? Start moving!!
Your happiness is your north star! Let it guide you when you feel lost. Ask yourself what makes you happy, like happy in real, the kind of happy we felt as children, that innocent and carefree kinda happy! Do not make your life guess for you what kind of relationships you feel happy in. Do not make your life guess for you what kind of career lets you harness your highest potential, fulfills you, and provides abundance as well! Take the guesswork out of your life's equation, substitute the guesses with crystal clear intentions and no matter what the result may be, you will love it! And for any logical heads reading this don't question me if you have never tried this in your life! It's so convenient for all of us to come to conclusions and anticipate without actually trying something. The truth is we are either lazy or afraid to change our perspective and actually implement or at least try to implement all the wise stuff we come across!
Not having the clarity to do what you should be doing is the biggest excuse you can make for not taking action and not being accountable for the situations you are in! If something feels off, if something doesn't feel right to you about your personal life, your living situation, your relationship with someone, your career, or anything else, this feeling itself is the biggest green flag for you to move forward and take action. You are not dumb, you always know what can be done. You are just plain afraid. You fear repercussions, you fear results, you fear judgments, you just drown yourself into an unfathomable ocean of fear! Let's say you decide to go to a grocery store to buy something, you don't know if you start walking and it rains and you may get wet or you may get into your car but it doesn't start or you may get into an accident on your way to the store and end up in a hospital bed instead or you may reach the store but that item is just out of stock! Phew! I hope this is not how you want to navigate your life! You make decisions and take action based on the information you have at hand and just go and whatever happens, it happens! You either alter your route or tweak your actions. Sometimes you embrace and surrender too! The point is the direction you need to go will become clear once you start moving and then you keep moving until you reach somewhere you would like to be! And when you feel unhappy or unsatisfied at that point you get back up and start moving again!
